Building Up Your Courage

Building Up Your Courage

When it comes to being resilient, do you know how courageous you are?

With 2020 being a universal “4” year, you are being invited to explore your courage. This is a year where our focus is on building a solid foundation, manifesting more of what we want, and taking action that supports both. If we want to build a new structure, we must remove the old structure first. Even with our finances, we may experience a shakedown that forces us to let go of the old, before bringing in the new abundant financial foundation we truly desire.

All of this takes courage. Courage to ask for what you want. Courage to create a more sustainable world. Courage to manifest anything, anywhere, even when it seems impossible.

Because, yes, you do have the courage, and yes, you can manifest anything you want.

You are invited to watch the replay of the Quantum Alignment Show below (60:11).

Manifesting in 2020

Manifesting in 2020

Happy 2020! This is a powerful year to manifest all that you WANT.

I emphasize WANT because it is really easy to be conditioned to focus on what you don't want, to see the lack in what you don't have, and to believe that you cannot have what you want.

Yikes. Can you feel all that negative energy?

It's no wonder we struggle with manifesting!

That is why, starting this year, it is time to change the way in which you manifest! Change your focus, how you feel, and your belief to "I can have it!"

2020, the year of clarity, is giving you the ability to see what you may have missed before. It will give you the keen sight to shift your focus, your obsession, and your ability to make magic happen.

Here's the thing with manifesting: you really are good at it! You create through the energy of who you are.

When you're unsure of who that is, Human Design is the go-to-tool to use. 

It is the visual aid that provides a map and an image that your mind can see as you think about who you are. When you walk into a room filled with people, you can see in your mind who you are! You know how to discern your energy versus those energies of others. 

Your mind, and the energy your mind creates, plays a big role in manifesting. Your brain serves as both the transmitter and receiver of brain waves...thoughts...energy.

Human Design shows you that you have ALL parts of the chart. Your design depicts how you experience the energies, either consistently or inconsistently. 

The energies of the universe flow to you and through you, creating experiences that assist you in learning, and forming, the habits that you perpetuate.

Happy New Year 2020!

Happy New Year 2020!

Today is a great day to reflect on 2019 and notice: what worked or not, whether you created what you desired or not, and if you found purpose and fulfillment or not.

Remember that the Human Design New Year begins on January 22, 2020 (at 6:04 am PST). This means that between now and then, you have plenty of time to honor the energies at play: the Gate 38 (Opposition), Gate 54 (Ambition), Gate 61 (Inner Truth), and Gate 60 (Limitation).

The Imminence of Change

The Imminence of Change

Change is exciting! Would you agree?

Maybe you crave change in the form of new thrills and experiences as I do. Perhaps you'd rather life be set on autopilot to coast along in an easy, flowing way. Because yes, change can often feel enduring, complicated, and hard.

Well, here's something you can plan for: the imminence of change. Change is the only constant in the universe. 

Just as a baby evolves, from the moment the sperm and egg met to its creation birthed from the womb, you are constantly evolving. You were born to change.

YOU are that evolutionary, magnificent being designed to change and create change in the world. 

You are changing. You are growing. You are learning. You are evolving. Always. Every moment of your life.

Fear has no power when you realize the truth of this evolutionary process. You are designed to change.

Stretching Yourself

I sure hope you enjoyed Thanksgiving (if you are celebrating in the US). Did you stretch yourself this holiday?

Not just your clothes...and your stomach from big eating...

Perhaps you endured challenges, such as family, cooking, or travel that stretched you in a new way.

Having my husband out of town this week has stretched me into my discomfort zone multiple times. It's been filled with ups and downs.

Yet I continue to push into the unknown, learning to find peace and calm as my twins provoke me to grow through dealing with their mischievous behaviors.

Yes I have room to grow. I believe there can be a better way to work together, yet my kids insist on pushing back, saying "no", and choosing not to listen because they don't want to. So yes, I have yelled and broken down emotionally. Sigh.

I have taken on new tasks that are just not my thing. Like waking up early each morning to let the chickens out and get the kids up. I love to sleep in!

I have cooked breakfast and dinner...even Thanksgiving dinner! That may not seem like a big deal, but I don't cook, ever. I'm not really allowed in the kitchen.

The Journey to Forgiveness

The Journey to Forgiveness

Forgiveness is not easy.

Oh how I know. I’ve spent the last year contemplating this very concept.

I’ve endured pain, anger, and…healing.

I’ve helped myself to heal and grow, as well as my daughter, Tayla, and my husband, Mike.

It has not been an easy journey.

Yet here I am…stronger, more resilient, and a better human for it all.

You are invited to watch and listen to my story of learning to forgive and have compassion for a close person who truly harmed, and split my family into two.

In this video (21:18), you will learn about one of the hardest situations me and my family recently went through, and how embracing forgiveness and compassion has been a big part of our healing process. My hope is that you too can begin to forgive yourself and have compassion and love for yourself, and others.

Gate 18 - Let go of the fear of imperfection and step into the power of improving

Gate 18 - Let go of the fear of imperfection and step into the power of improving

In Human Design, there are fear gates coming off the Spleen Center. For the next couple of days, Mercury and Venus are activating the gate 18. In the lower, expression the gate 18 is the fear of imperfection. In the higher expression, this gate is all about improving or correcting. There is room for improvement in our systems, and this energy sees that and wants to make an impactful difference.

Watch this short video (16:33) to learn more.

Fear gives you the opportunity to learn and step more fully into trusting. It's time to learn to trust - yourself, each other, humanity, the universe! The more you trust, the more you let go of fear and the old powers it held over you.

You are invited to join the What's Fear Got to Do With It? Sun Activation program beginning October 1.

The Controlling Truth About Fear

The Controlling Truth About Fear

Fear was once an important piece of the human puzzle. It gave humans the instinct to run, hide, and survive.

But is fear really that important anymore?

You’re encouraged to explore this answer more deeply.

For some of you, fear is all you know. It was around you as a child. Your mom was afraid something would happen to you. Your dad was afraid he couldn’t support the family. Your teachers were afraid of going against the curriculum. Your friends were afraid you wouldn’t like them. Everything breathed in fear, and breathed out even more fear. 

The doctor office you visited had lingering fear balls of tension - from parents worried about their children and how to pay the doctor, to doctors fearing they weren’t charging enough or spending enough quality time with their patients.

Billboards, newspapers, television commercials, and all other advertising mediums boasted fear-based tactics. They used fear to advertise why you had to have something NOW or else face the nasty consequence of what would happen if you did NOT purchase that product. Government agencies focused on the fear around controlling outbreaks, paying your taxes, and protecting the borders.

Unfortunately, these same tactics are heavily present in the modern world. All of those tactics of yesterday…are still used today.

Everywhere you look, there is fear. Lurking. Waiting to attack you. Or attack through you.

So is fear really important?

Prosperity and Financial Expansion

Prosperity and Financial Expansion

To expand is to grow. To grow is to evolve. To evolve is exactly what your soul seeks.

In the video below (7:02) , I share my thoughts on expansion and how you can expand financially.

In the financial industry, it’s so easy to focus on contraction, constriction, and making budget cuts. But no one likes budgeting!

In fact, what if you could focus more on expanding your wealth potential within your job, your business, or your own personal finances?

The Art of Creating YOU

The Art of Creating YOU

There is an art to you. There is an art to how you were created. There is an art to how you are still creating you…right now.

Yes, the universe played a creative role in aligning the energies to design the physical experience your soul essence is having…right now.

If it feels as if you have no choice in the matter, I want you to know that you did…and you still DO have a choice…right now.

You always get to choose the role you play in this life and how you engage with the energies.

Just because your unique Human Design may say you’re supposed to be a certain way, doesn’t mean you have to be. Because you have free will, you have a choice.

You choose the frequency of the energy you radiate out. There are higher expressions and there are lower expressions. Every day of your life, you get to choose which ones you will wear, share, and BE.

You get to choose whether you live in fear, or live with trust that you are supported. You determine if negative vibrations are a part of your source field, or if positive energies are.

You get to choose to learn from the contrast in your life to guide you to where you want to go and who you want to be.